Wise Advice About Gossip

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a friend. Within a few days the entire community knew the story. The person whom it concerned was deeply hurt and offended.

Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to get wise advice about gossip from a sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.

“Go to the marketplace,” he said, “and purchase a chicken, then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road.”

Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.

The next day the wise man said, “Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me.”

The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.

“You see,” the wise sage said, “it’s easy to drop them, but it’s impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It doesn’t take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely repair the wrong done to your friendship.”